Well... Kouga "loves" Kagome 'cus she's got spunk.
Just look at him when she slapped him like that.
But I don't know if Kouga would want to only be friends...
I know he really doesn't love her... he just want her to be his.
But just looked at what happened when Akane and Ryouga were friends...
(and keep in mind that Ryouga REALLY loves Akane)
Akane: Ryouga! Is what I said bothering you?
Ryouga: A-Akane...
Akane: But you made me say it... "I hate you" I mean.
Ryouga: I don't need your sympathy!
Akane: But the truth is... I feel exactly the opposite!
Ryouga: Eh...? *blushing*
Ryouga: But... but... you don't... *blush*
Akane: I do mean it! C'mon... let's be friends forever!
Ryouga: Let's be... friends...? *falling from heaven to hell*